A Personal Note From Orion

Welcome, Stellar Life listeners! In this episode, we delve deep into spirituality, clairvoyance, and the powerful journey of calling in your spirit baby. Our special guest today is Tori Quisling, a renowned clairvoyant, therapist, and author with over 35 years of experience. Together, we explore the intricate connection between a woman’s desire for a baby and her spiritual energy, touching on methods to communicate with spirit babies, the impact of mental health on fertility, and the profound influence of mindset and limiting beliefs.

Over the years, Tori has discovered that skepticism often stems from fear inherited from loved ones, such as mothers or grandmothers, who are deeply connected to the person seeking clarity. Tori likens individuals to light bulbs, where those she connects with have the potential to illuminate with a brilliant 10,000-watt filament when fear is transcended. Her compassionate approach facilitates deep healing, allowing her clients to harness their full potential and step into their owcn light.

Tori shares groundbreaking insights from her own journey, including her transformative experiences at the Berkeley Psychic Institute and a life-changing trip to the Philippines. We’ll also discuss the importance of nurturing one’s clairvoyant abilities, stepping out of comfort zones, and embracing positivity and spiritual healing in the fertility journey. Plus, Tori introduces her comprehensive fertility program. 

Join us for this enlightening conversation that encourages hope, challenges societal norms, and equips you with tools for personal and spiritual growth. So, without further ado, let’s dive into the show!

In This Episode

• [04:23] – Orion welcomes Tori Quisling and invites her to share her favorite childhood memories.
• [11:58] – Orion and Tori discuss strategies for breaking through limiting beliefs.
• [18:37] – Tori reflects on her training in the clairvoyant program at Berkeley Psychic Institute.
• [30:07] – Tori elaborates on the concept of spirit babies and how they select their mothers.
• [33:54] – Tori expresses her belief in women’s ability to conceive.
• [37:05] – Orion inquires how to connect with spirit babies.
• [42:57] – Tori offers advice to women aiming to conceive and enhance their fertility.
• [52:39] – Tori reveals her top tips for leading a stellar life.

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About Today’s Show

Hi Tori. Welcome to the Stellar Life podcast. Thank you so much for being here. I am super excited to have you, and I know that this is going to be a very powerful conversation because I know you, and you’re amazing.

Hi, Orion. It’s great to be here on your show.

It’s phenomenal. You’re one of the most special, unique, spiritual, kind women I know, and you help tons of people. I intend for this conversation to be super helpful for everybody who listens. I’m sure it will because it’s you.

Well, thank you. I enjoy talking with you.

Before we begin, can you share one of your favorite childhood memories?

My son, who’s almost 22, is traveling on a little road trip with his friends. He just graduated college. I’ve been thinking all about the camping days with my family, sitting around the campfire, camping in national parks—just special times being with family.

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That’s beautiful, so you are a clairvoyant. How did you find out about it? Maybe you can share a little bit about your journey to finding your gift.

I do clairvoyant work, which is the ability to see the truth and communicate through visual communication, saying, “I’m seeing, noticing, and observing things for you, giving you insights and intuitive direction.” I started doing this when I was about 17. I was in Berkeley, California, and I learned all about the Berkeley Psychic Institute. I went there for a reading, and then a couple of years later, I went back and started to do their program, the Berkeley Psychic Institute program called the Clairvoyant Training Program. I ended up being so young there and getting involved in it that I ended up being a teacher there. I was a tour guide for Deja-vu Tours at the age of 23 and traveled to the Philippines to visit healers in Brazil.

I was very young, so I was able to see energy and experience energy on incredible, miraculous levels. So that it’s not a matter of believing in energy and spirit and healing. I just know it’s true. I experienced all these things at such a young age. Then I went on to be a teacher and elementary student, which was very magical for a long time and kind of like a Harry Potter teacher. It was a lot of fun. We did a lot of experiments in the classroom with energy, and we did sweat lodges. We just did everything that was an adventure.

Because I was in northern California at the time, we could do things we wanted to do. It was a lot of fun. Then I moved to New York, became a psychic there and had a business. And let’s see, I learned RTT now, rapid transformational therapy, so that I can go deeper for my clients. I still access and help people through my clairvoyance. But now I help them explore the subconscious so that they can get deep healing.

This is amazing. I think this is the perfect combination of knowing to do some systems into hypnosis and being so connected. Because when the clients are in a trance state, you kind of go there with them, and then you see beyond. I totally get it.

I call it ‘going into the weeds.’ Let’s get to the core and the root cause of things.

There is also something really powerful about starting young. When I was 17 or 18, my mom gave me two books—The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy, and You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay. That opened up my heart to see beyond this reality, this matrix, and truly believe in manifesting miracles.

When you’re so young, it’s almost like you’re more open to it, and you’re not so jaded by life and trauma. I mean, some people have trauma from childhood. I do, too. But your spirit is still open. That said, everybody can open up at any stage of life. It’s really nice to start young. You grew up in Berkeley, which is a place that is pretty open to those ideas of clairvoyance and energy. But did you get pushback or some naysayers along the way?

This was the 1980s and ‘90s. There used to be Lewis Bostwick, who started the Berkeley Psychic Institute. He would give lectures—You Are Psychic was the name of his lectures. They would be in an auditorium, and people would come to find out that all these sensitivities that we have and connection to other people feeling what they feel, matching everybody, is a psychic ability, and learning to find your space and things like that. It was a brand-new idea. There was this psychic newspaper that was put out, and it was the one and only psychic newspaper that I helped edit and write as part of the Berkeley Psychic Institute.

Everything was brand new. Of course, the media and skeptics would always try to attack the psychic institute and doubt it, and we would just call that media energy skeptic energy. What I found out over the years is that somebody who is skeptical just has a lot of fear. The way I look at it, maybe it is not even their fear. They’re all excited, like, “Tell me more.” But their grandmother or mother, someone in their space, who they’re healing and want to take care of, is afraid. So they can only go so far. I look at it as a filament, like in a light bulb.

You and I, we’re like a 10,000-watt filament. If we’re a light bulb, it’s stamped 10,000 watts, and we can take that light because we’re like, “Yeah, blow my mind, amaze me, surprise me. I’m ready for the light truth and the information and unconditional love.” But a lot of people, their filaments are set lower, like 100 watts, 1000 watts of information, and they could literally blow their fuse.

That’s how I see people, as light bulbs. That filament is along the nervous system. People get blocked in their filaments along the nervous system. They need to be in agreement with their family and what their family believes in, they can’t blow it out, and they can’t expand it because then they go outside their family agreement.

What you’re saying is that the difference between a hundred watts and 10,000 is a choice. That’s awesome. This is so true for everything in our life. The limiting beliefs are the blocks for everything.

Connection to others and learning to find your space is a psychic ability.

It’s who you’re healing. Someone might say, “I really want to do this.” And then they end up being angry after the reading, like, “No,” because it’s not even them. It’s someone in their family or someone that they’re. We call it healing somebody when you take on their limitations. And when we’re children, our goal is to not be rejected. So it really starts in childhood. That’s why I do hypnotherapy because everything starts in childhood.

Our goal as a child is never to be rejected. Our family is the first people we don’t want to be rejected by. If they’re limited in how much they can hear, how much they can have of the truth, for whatever reason, they can’t handle it, children will have to match that until they have to rebel and resist and grow beyond their family. And a lot of times, being interested in psychic abilities and clairvoyance, intuition is your way of busting through, breaking beyond the boundaries of the family’s belief system. And that’s the first. So, a skeptic is going to really reinforce the family’s belief system, which is just fear of the truth and the unknown and wanting to have a group agreement or tribal agreement.

That’s one of the hardest things to do, to break through a limiting belief like that, because limiting beliefs become our identity. That means that you have to kill the old identity and then step into a new one, which can be easy for some and super hard for others. So some people will, when it comes to anything in life, they will prefer to hold on to the limiting beliefs and to their identity rather than get the success or what they really want and dream about because it’s staying in their comfort zone. That’s why a breakthrough is called a breakthrough.

You were literally breaking through something. I have had many breakthroughs in my life, and I still have many breakthroughs because as we shed some limiting beliefs, we also sometimes accumulate more. So it’s an ongoing work. But I love what you said about the idea of if anyone is listening and wants to connect to their intuition or psychic abilities.

Our goal as a child is never to be rejected. Our family is the first people we don’t want to be rejected by.

I totally believe from personal experience that there is more to life than what we can see. I love what you said about this choice. It’s your choice to think about. How much light do I want to have? Also, in Kabbalah, they call it a vessel. They say exactly what you’re saying. They say you have to expand your vessel to get the light of the creation, and if your vessel is contracted, as you said, it can actually damage someone, or he will be so blocked that there is no light coming in. So that’s the work, right?

I guess that vessel and the filament idea are similar in that the channel that allows the light through and that comfort zone that you’re talking about that people are in, we call it being familiar, something that’s familiar, and it has the word family in it. So, since we’re raised by our family, we have no choice. No filter for the first seven years, I think the first 17 years. But we don’t have a good filter. So, anything in the family and their limiting beliefs become ours. We don’t have a choice. And so we always move towards what’s familiar.

Like a little child, you’d want your little son to only stay with familiars, not walk off with a stranger. So it’s a safe thing to be familiar with the family. So, the family has limiting beliefs, such as that we’re not good enough and other people can have it, not us. These things happen within your own limiting beliefs as a child, and getting out of your comfort zone is kind of leaving your family, leaving the familiar. Growing up, it is a breakthrough, a breakaway. It feels like you’re betraying your family when you make a change and see more and be more.

We’re herd animals, human beings. We need to be a part of a tribe. Thinking that you’re going to leave one tribe is very scary, and it’s also a false belief. Just because you believe something other than your family doesn’t mean that they’re going to ostracize you. They’re just going to get to love you regardless of who you are. And also, we are how many? Like 8 billion people on the planet. There are so many tribes to be a part of. You love your family, and then you choose your friends, and you choose your tribe, and you want to be around people who elevate you in your new gift.

When someone steps into a new gift, it can be really threatening to other people around them because they don’t like it, I know her as her. I don’t want her to change because then maybe I need to change, or maybe I’m not going to be good enough because her light is now so big, and I feel less than. That’s also a reason why maybe people will try to drag you back to the familiar and bombard you. But science and statistics, listen to those people that wear those uniforms and coats, and they’re smarter than you, and they know better than you, and they’re on TV.

It’s all about control. It’s all about energy, which is what it comes down to energy exchange. People need your energy in the group, and if you want to break the group agreement that you’re a part of, even if it’s the family. These beliefs are especially limiting. “I’m not good enough. I’m not worthy. I don’t deserve it. I’m not enough. Other people can have it. Not me. I’m different. I can’t connect.” All those beliefs are subconscious. We’re not even aware of them. They’re just happening under the surface from childhood. The rebellious stage of the teenager is the important part of integrating these tribes, being willing to go against the familiar, the family.

That’s so beautiful. When did you know I’m a clairvoyant?” I can see. When you were completely anchored in your gift, you knew, “Okay, this is real. I’m not imagining it, and I am playing with those dimensions and psychic abilities.”

I was in the training school to do just that, the clairvoyant program at the Berkeley Psychic Institute. So we would practice reading several days a week, reading lines, and reading people. I have a lot of stories where I saw things and still didn’t believe them. I would see something, and the reader would start to cry because it was so true.

But what really got me was when we were on a trip to the Philippines, and Jun Labo was one of the healers we visited. This is back again in the early nineties, which seems like yesterday, but I guess it was a long time ago. He gave me a healing that was just incredible.

Anything in the family and their limiting beliefs becomes ours. We don’t have a choice; we always move toward what’s familiar.

I was 23 or whatever I was. What these psychic surgeons do is they leave their bodies. You say hello to them and do the business of it, and then they leave their body, and then they are someone else. You can see their eyes change, their whole persona changes, and you can see white around the fingertips. You can literally see. And they call it Christ’s force energy of Jesus. It’s all Jesus’s energy. 

Christ forces energy. So it’s really beautiful, this really pure light. And then what he did was he just came up to me, and I had been asking to be able to see. I was like, I just want to see. But you don’t say it out loud. You just think it for the healing. He just came up, and he smacked me on the forehead, which was a little abrupt. It was just like, “Boom.”

It felt like an egg had been cracked on my forehead because this liquid poured down my face like egg yolk. It was so weird. We had several people watching. We had 30 people on the trip, and this liquid poured down my face. We called it ectoplasm because he would be sleeveless, and this stuff would just come out with this energy. It poured down my face, dripped down my face, and my whole forehead opened up into this incredible light that was so soothing, so beautiful. And then it just expanded throughout my entire body, and he stepped away.

They just do this little cleanup thing. I was really changed. Then I came back from the trip, and Louis Bostwick was still alive at the time. We met for breakfast, and he and his wife, because I was the director at 23, the tour, and he looked right at me and said, “They opened your third eye.” “Wow.” He saw it right away. It was just so confirming. It was just amazing. Joe Dispenza talks about this, too, the kind of explosion orgasm that happens in the pineal gland. So it’s really what he did. He would just go into my pineal gland, like, orgasmic.

I think I was always somewhat open with my third eye and kind of magical, especially when I left Israel and went to Japan, and I would be like, “I love my life.” No matter how much hardship I went through in the beginning, I always knew that my angels were with me. I was such a Pollyanna. I’m now more jaded. I want to be more Pollyanna.

I’m coming back to that. But I was really living my life that way. Then life happens, things happen, and when you’re so open, people take advantage. I’ve been through the dark night of the soul, and I kind of closed off. I think one of the people who first opened my third eye was Donny Epstein. He does network chiropractic, and he’s a magical being. When he was young, he couldn’t see photos.

He would see just energy signals, and he would touch you from the back, and your body would go into Kundalini awareness, and you would go into different realms, and it would be unbelievable. He also works with Tony Robbins before he goes on stage for 14 hours in front of millions of people. I’m very lucky to know Donny personally, and I love him so much. He and his wife. Such a great gift. He was the first one that, I think, opened me to that level.

I went to Oneness University in India for a ceremony. The monk gave me a diksha, a oneness blessing. It reminded me of what you said: the moment they touched my head, I was like, “Gone.” It was awesome. I have had different moments of awakening since then, but yes, sometimes you need external forces, and someone can unlock you when you are like a fish in the water and you can’t see.

The rebellious teenager’s stage is an important part of integrating tribes; they are willing to go against the familiar—the family.

It was always talked about at the psychic institute. What I see it as is its permission. It’s being given permission to see because, as children, we don’t have permission to see. Children don’t need to be seen psychically unless they’re in danger. They’ve got to turn on all their psychic abilities to survive, and it’s premature. When adults want to work with me and say, “I want to open up my psychic abilities,” The ones they have are just the ones for survival from childhood. They’re like, “Oh, I’m seeing danger. I see that problem.” 

That’s the second chakra clairsentient danger signal that you want to have when you’re a child. If you’re in a violent household or unstable adult, dysfunctional adult household, unsafe household, then you’ve got to turn up all those abilities, and they’re not turned up properly because they’re usually from the second and first chakra survival and just clairsentient feeling for safety. That’s why a lot of people will tell me, adults, I’m clairsentient, and I’ll be so proud, or I’ll be an empath. If you grew up in a difficult household to survive. We have to turn those down and turn up the forehead. We got to get back to seeing, which is where we see, like you said, “Just see the Pollyanna. Let’s just see the beauty in things. Let’s see this light.” That’s what you get to do when you’re an adult.

We don’t see the world as it is. We see it as we are. I totally believe that. Each one of us is like Neo from The Matrix. When Neo comes to the psychic, and she tells him, “You’re not the one, you’re probably not, you know,” he stops believing that he’s the one. It’s almost like the universe is testing us. It’s like, you’re not the one. Let’s see if you have it in you to start believing that you are the one who can heal your life, that you are the one who can co-create, that you are the one who can open yourself to receive so much light, that you light up everyone around you and create such major shifts in the world and in your world.

Seeing yourself as significant and powerful enough to manifest your dreams and help others manifest theirs. Let’s see if you’re the one. So, with the messages we got, it’s almost like a test. You’re not the one. You’re not the one. This is not true. “Hey, look at YouTube. Hey, go back to your YouTube shorts.” This is something I’m getting healed from, like “Thank God,” slowly and but surely getting off of it because I see how it damages my world. So, screens, I forgot it comes from a Latin word that means a mirror. Black mirrors used to be, like, dark forces, and we all are staring at our screens, which are literally dark mirrors.

Mirror, too. The British BBC shows the Black Mirror.

I didn’t want to see it. I don’t like scary movies. They scare me.

It’s just like The Twilight Zone episode.

I know. That scares me, too. I’m like, “Uh uh.” Just looking at my screen and whatever comes up there disturbs me enough.

We get broken as children because the adults we’re with are broken. It’s not good enough. It makes us easier to control if we’re not good enough. Like you just said, “Change the world, express ourselves, and be unique.” When I was an elementary teacher, I would teach summer school for just enrichment, not for the kids who were struggling but for the kids who just wanted to learn. We did this whole simulation where they were rich children in castles because the way children learn in castles, privileged royal children, is they do memorization, they do affirmations, they learn to discipline their mind by standing on 1ft. We would do and stare at the hand of the clock. We did all the activities that the royal children would do.

If I want to teach my son that, where do I find those resources?

We get broken as children because the adults we’re with are broken.

I will find it. It was based on a simulation somebody wrote, and then I recreated it. I’ll look for that. It’s like The Prince and Princess simulation. They would just show up every day, ready to memorize, and they had to memorize. The goal was to memorize as many as possible because getting your memory going is really important. It gives you self-esteem. Right now, I can’t even remember phone numbers.

I remember two phone numbers, mine and my husband’s. 

They take away the memory ability, and that’s our own ability to control our thoughts when we have affirmations. I’ve got some that I can grab. The walls of lack and delay now crumble away, and I walk into the promised land under grace, saying those things that I can have memorized. Memorizing powerful prayers and affirmations is important. Louise Hay, you said, was a big influence on you. So that is really important. It keeps your mind, and your attention, which is your most valuable asset. That’s what the royals believe. So they could go out and open up a country and do all these things. Now, the regular school system, the public schools, is for factory work.

It was actually designed to make the kids factory workers and not have independent thinking. If you go back to the origination and actually their mission statement and why they created the school system.

Memorizing powerful prayers and affirmations is important.

It was for the Industrial Age. All of this affects souls. Just think of these little children with all this creativity, your little son. Think of them, go into these buildings, and they are discouraged about themselves, competition and feeling less than not good enough. It’s part of the economy, just keeping them from work because they can do work. When I was an elementary teacher, we did something called project-based learning.

We also did the straw students and teachers and repaired a watershed. So we would have our students, me and the fourth-grade teachers, and fifth-grade teachers, we all went out into in California to the ranchers, and we planted willows, thousands and thousands of willows for shade. So, this fish would come back because the cattle had ruined the sides of the river. Just within a year, we could drive by and see all the willows grown and the shade. The children saw the work they could do. This is at ten years old. We were always looking for project-based learning. It was a really powerful program that we got to do in northern California.

Tori, I can go with you in so many directions because you’re so wise, and I want to get into another topic that you’re working on that is super important for this world, which is fertility calling on spirit babies. And what are spirit babies? So maybe you can share a bit about how you got into this fascination with fertility and decided to help women with fertility. And what are spirit babies?

I have my book Calling In Your Baby, which I wrote several years ago based on just all my clients that had been interested. I had thousands of students who went through my school, the Center for Clairvoyant and Psychic Development. Part of the lessons that we would do is look for baby beings. They’re called the Berkeley Psychic Institute. I was trained to always look for baby beings around, especially women who were raised Catholic, or they’d be inundated with these little cupids. Baby beings look like little cupids, and they’re very feisty and mischievous because they are us. When we wanted a body before we got here, we were a baby, being a baby spirit around our mom, sometimes around our dad, but usually around the moment because we knew we used the mom to get in, so we chose our mom. We’re around her, maybe even since she was a child, through her dogs.

How does the spirit choose the mom? And how many baby spirits can be around one being, one human being?

Religion has a lot to do with that, permission and requesting in the catholic world a little girl born. There’s apparently, I wasn’t raised Catholic, but there were apparently prayers and an intention from the whole congregation that this girl would have children in different religions. It’s all about making sure there’s a lot of children coming through. See, my ear just started to buzz. That’s a spirit around me. And so if you’re just Catholic, for example, it’s kind of like when you’re born, and you’re baptized, you come through, you’re given a whole bunch of baby spirits, and they follow you around.

There’s a lot of encouragement to have children and babies. You look like a juicy taxicab, you know, with your light on. Everyone’s just waiting to get in. Those people tend to be really fertile. Because there are lots of baby spirits ready to come through, so they’ll make the condom break or make you forget to take your pill or, you know, whatever. So we’ll often warn them, “Hey, you got a lot of baby spirits around you, baby beings. So use something if you don’t want to have a baby.”

What’s the amount of baby spirits that can be around one woman throughout her life?

There’s an infinite number that can be around you. The way I look at it now, what I’ve developed in my rapid fertility program, or calling in your baby program, which it always has been, is to realize that when you’re in the baby zone, this 1 minute you’re just a woman enjoying your life and succeeding through college, through your work, and finding your mate. The next minute, you’re unhappy with everything because you have to have a baby. You’re dreaming about a baby. You’re triggered on so many levels that you can’t have a baby feeling your body isn’t worthy of being triggered. “You’re not good enough. Something’s wrong with me.” So this is the same for every woman I’ve ever worked with who wants to have a baby. I call it the baby zone because it doesn’t seem like there’s any way out. It’s very frustrating and depressing.

Do you believe that every woman who desires a baby has the ability to have one?

In some form or another—if they don’t have the parts or there’s something that’s been damaged in theme for real, often there’s a feeling that you’re damaged, even though the doctors say there’s nothing wrong. It’s called unexplained infertility. There’s nothing wrong. Everything’s working. It’s really about your womb protecting you from something it thinks is dangerous.

Often, there’s a feeling that you’re damaged, even though the doctors say there’s nothing wrong. It’s called unexplained infertility.

In most cases, every woman that desires a baby, in most cases, except really, like, radical cases, I guess the womb is out. There is no womb anymore or something like that. Probably, God gave the woman the desire because, in Judaism, there is a saying that “God brings the cure before the illness.” So, it’s the concept that there is a cure and a way to solve everything.

I guess when God gave a woman this desire, it’s because she’s able to have it. That doesn’t mean that the journey is going to be. You just sit and meditate, and things happen. You have to do things in the physical world, and you have to do the mental work and break through limiting beliefs of age, and I can’t. And statistics and all that noise for you to manifest your dreams. Because you have that desire, whatever it is, it’s in your vortex, and there is an ability for you to manifest it.

The desire. A lot of it isn’t even yours. Women are mediums. The words trans, medium, and medium. People have heard that you can channel a spirit through you. So, women are natural mediums. That’s the womb, the female creative center, the uterus and the ovaries. From the female creative center, which is a medium center, you can channel. A lot of times, your emotions aren’t yours. They are the baby spirit’s emotions. So when you’re in the baby zone, and you’re feeling frustrated, tantrums, and impatient, you forget all your waiting skills, right? As adults, we know how to wait. We’ve been in waiting rooms. We’ve had to do tests and wait for the results.

This is what we do as adults. We wait all day long in lines, when the parking lot, whatever. But all of a sudden, we forget how to wait and be patient. We lose all patience. That’s the baby spirit’s nervous system. What I believe now is the baby zone. This level of impatience, frustration, tantrums and everything. You’re getting ready to be a parent of a child. Because if you can calm yourself down and you can comfort yourself, reassure yourself, and distract yourself while you’re waiting for your baby, you’re in the waiting period. Then you’ll be a good mom because that’s what you’re going to have to do for your child. It’s preparing you. 

How do we connect to our spirit babies? How do we call them in?

I have a method that I use. So basically, whenever you want to be clairvoyant, first of all, you’ve got to be amused. You can’t see if you’re serious. You know, you go after it. You have to be smiling. You have to be amused like the Cheshire cat, with a big smile. And then, as you get, that makes you curious.

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When you want to see, you have to give context to what you’re seeing. You can’t just go, where’s the baby? You have to create a container to see. Even if you want to see a grandparent who’s deceased or anyone, you have to give them a container for them to come into, for you to have the experience with. To see these baby spirits, I used a playground container. Now, I was a teacher for a long time and a yard duty, so I know about these playgrounds. But you go to the playground, and if you’re with a partner, you and the partner go to the fence, like parents coming to pick up your child. So you get that feeling of them running to the fence. “Mommy, Daddy.”

You’re there to pick up your childhood. You go to the fence, and it’s that simple. You’re there with a lot of curiosity, a lot of interest, just ready to see. Then you see who’s running towards you at the fence. A lot of times, it’ll be, I’ll say, “Is it a boy? A girl, or both,” maybe there are five kids running who get your attention first. So that’s how you make that connection. And oftentimes, that grandparent or that parent that’s deceased that you’ve been wanting to see is a great container to have them be there, too, so you can make that connection. So that’s how you make the connection.

Knowing where to find them and giving instructions to the babies, like going down the slide, which is your uterus. I have this little system that I’ve created, a system of seeing. Anytime you want to tune into something, and this is the adult way to do it, the child’s way to tune into something is to just feel everything pick up and get feeling, sensing, and I’m getting that child level of seeing. You’re not seeing. There’s nothing to see down there. So you have to come up here and go. Let me see the playground and where these children would be.

A lot of times, your emotions aren’t yours. They are the baby spirit’s emotions.

I find the playground really useful because then the children are busy, they’re swinging, they’re sliding, they’re playing, and they’re running. Many women who have worked with me have sent me pictures of their child at that three-year-old age, four-year-old age that they were seeing in the vision of the playground. Wearing just what they thought they were wearing. Looking that way.

If a woman goes to that visualization and she sees a spirit baby, so time goes by she’s not pregnant yet.

Spirit babies do come through animals. I recommend that a couple have a pet because it becomes their baby, and they become mom and dad. “Mom’s going to feed you, and Dad’s going to walk you.” Pretty soon, they’re successful at taking care of that child, and then they get the confidence to bring in their baby.

It’s a great idea. My question before was, so let’s say a woman sees her spirit baby, and then she goes on with her life, but still nothing happens. Do spirit babies change according to their situation, like mental health stress? Maybe another soul will choose to come in. Or is it like the same spirit babies that are still waiting there?

Anything can happen. There’s no generic one-size-fits-all, but usually, it’s familiar. There’ll be the same spirit, baby. The other angle that I help women understand is going back to their own birthdays. If you’re interested in having a baby, I have you go back to your own birth around your mom when you were a spirit baby so you feel how real it is to be a spirit baby. And I take you back to a year before your conception because conception really starts as a thought in a mother’s mind. It doesn’t start when the egg and sperm come together. That’s that baby zone.

Spirit babies do come through animals. I recommend that a couple have a pet because it becomes their baby, and they become mom and dad.

I’ve got to have a baby. Any animal is the same way. They find their den, and they build their nest long before the impregnation happens. So there’s a preparation. When you’re in the baby zone, you’re in your nesting time. So if you go back to being your own mother’s baby spirit, you’ll see that you were with her most likely long before because there’s an agreement with human beings. There’s an agreement that has to be made, and the baby spirit has gotten to know you and knows what it can offer you. They show up as little children on the playground for you, but they’re really whole beings because when you go back to your own birth, you’re still you in all your glory, who you are, and all your skills. It’s just that you have to be raised into this body that grows until you can express yourself fully. So that’s why childhood’s so difficult, because you’re you, but you’re in this limited body, and you make an agreement with your mom, like, “I’ll be your best friend forever if that happens.” 

What kind of advice or comfort can you give a woman who’s going through this journey? Maybe saw her spirit babies. Nothing happened. You know, it’s very difficult. Fertility journeys are very, very difficult. I had my own fertility journey where I got, like, a 5% chance to conceive, and I had to go through a lot of actually connected with my son’s spirit and got instruction for him. And he told me to go and do Theta healing and past life progression, and I did it. I listened. And actually, when he came to the world, his character now is exactly the character of that spirit baby that I spoke with.

But I remember my fertility journey was there were a lot of times where, I mean, I was hopeful and. But there were a lot of times when it was scary. And even when I got pregnant, I didn’t want to tell anyone because I didn’t want something to happen if I told somebody something. You know, that those things. So how can a woman feel more trusting, sexy, juicy, alive, and vibrant on this fertility journey?

What you just said, do that. Feel sexy, more alive, vibrant. The first thing women do, so don’t give up, is my advice. The first thing they do is make themselves a patient, and they go straight to the doctor to find out the nitty-gritty of the science of their body, which has nothing to do with the baby or making a baby. The minute you start to feel that baby zone, I want to have a baby, we then come into direct contact with these limiting beliefs of childhood. Maybe I’m not good enough. Maybe I’m not worthy of this. Maybe other people can have it, not me. Those are real limiting beliefs that affect you, so they can keep you from having all the juicy sex that you need to have.

So, the first thing you would do is just start to speak to your body and say, “We’re turning on the green light. We’re safe now” because most women that I work with, they’re older, because this is the first time they’ve decided for me I was older, too, because I was doing my career. We’re encouraged to do our career first, not have a baby first.

It’s such a double standard. It’s like when you’re young and you want to get pregnant, they’re like, “Oh, you have your whole life in front of you, don’t get pregnant much to do.” And then you hit your thirties and like, “Oh, you’re too old now, 36, you’re geriatric.” I’m like, “What?”

It’s very torturous for women. It’s abuse to women, really. And in your thirties, you are primed to have a baby because that’s when you are an adult. You’re not a child raising a child. You want to be an adult. You’re going to give this child a great childhood, and your body is juicy, and it has all that it needs. But what happens is we go right to the doctor, and the doctor takes a picture, does the test of your body being dormant, which it’s going to be dormant when you’ve told it all those years, “Hey, we’re going to be sexually active. But no baby.” We even call it a baby scare, a pregnancy scare.

We actually conditioned our minds for years and years to not have a baby. That’s why it shows up as dormant on most tests.

Your womb is another woman inside your body; it’s there to protect you.

It’s a snapshot of your womb. Your womb, which is another woman inside your body. Your womb is there to protect you. It is your Viking warrior. It’s down there like a shield, and you’ve told it, “No, we want to get sexy and be an adult, but we do not want any babies. It’ll ruin our lives.” They have a lot of doctors, lawyers, and women that have. It would. It would ruin their career if they got pregnant and they weren’t even into the guy. They were just kind of having fun like we do. No, pregnancy was the rule. And all of a sudden, it’s just a thought in your mind, “Hey, this time we have sex.” I want to have a baby. But the Viking princess down there, the shield, doesn’t get the message.

It does not. It’s going to continue to work for you and not let you get pregnant. So the doctor takes the little test, and it’s good news because it means that your womb has been listening. All those low eggs, low hormones, all that stuff. That just means that your body’s been managing even endometriosis. It’s the body PCOS. It’s the body doing what it can to keep you from getting pregnant. As soon as you give it the green light, which is on a subconscious level, it can only speak to the womb the subconscious, and you can, through repetition, keep emphasizing you want to have a baby in the womb and surround yourself with fertility symbols and just getting really, really sexual. 

What I tell women is instead of studying, you’re going to be a gynecologist. These women know everything about hormones and levels and everything like that. They know way too much. Unless they’re a doctor, they just know way too much. So instead of studying the IVF process, all that study tantric lovemaking. If you’re single, you’re doing it on your own. You’ve got to get yourself sensualized and feel sexual with yourself and get a lot of touch. But study tantric lovemaking, and that’s what you are an expert at.

Couples that want to have a baby, they’ve got the joy of sex by the bed. You know, they’ve got books on it, as well as tantric love videos. That’s what they’re the expert in. And I’ll hear from people that, “Oh, well, we did it twice last month in my window. It’s just not stimulating that womb to know that you’re interested in having a baby.”

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Definitely someone’s listening is on the journey. Work with somebody who can help you with the mental aspects, like Tori. Also, take care of your body really well. Every time you eat something healthy, it’s a signal for your body. “Oh, I’m getting my body ready.” Go to acupuncture. They’re amazing acupuncturists and herbalists. I got a lot of support from acupuncturists. When I was before my pregnancy and during my pregnancy, I don’t know how I survived without it. So you definitely want to treat it on all aspects, mind, body, and soul, all of it, because you can have what you want.

I emphasize that having a baby is a spiritual experience way more than a medical one. The minute you want to have a baby, or if it’s been a little while since you’ve been wanting one, know that this is all part of the conception process. Are you getting used to the idea of being a mom, and are you growing and expanding yourself to have this baby because you literally have to expand as a spirit? Not only will your belly expand, but you need to expand as a spirit to have this baby because this baby is going to be a big spirit and requires you not to have these tight limitations and hang-ups.

So it’s good to do some of this spiritual healing and work to prepare yourself to be a mom. Even I have women who are already pregnant, and they’re still feeling this edginess, so they still do the healing in preparation for the baby. Because you said, your son is big spirit. You had to expand yourself to bring on every level.

I’m still expanding. I think motherhood is probably the thing that got me to expand the most ever.

You exchange cells with each other. As I said, my son is traveling to Yellowstone. I feel like I’m in Yellowstone. I’m in Arizona. I feel like I’m in Yellowstone right now because my cells are in him traveling. It’s just you’re never the same, right? You just have a part of you living outside of you, and it’s. You really have to have some tools to manage that.

I just want to share that I was a part of that very small 5% chance statistic, and in my mind, I chose to think 95% because who are they to tell me who I am? What I’m able to do? I mean, with all the good intentions, and doctors are amazing, and all that, and I had to go through a c-section, so thank God for the doctors and all that. Push the statistics away. You are not a statistic. And as I said, in a world of, I don’t know, 8 billion people, there is somebody out there that has your exact situation and is now holding a beautiful baby.

I have people think of sitting in a stadium full of women, all of that have had their babies through IVF, or they also went through whatever they needed to, but they all have their babies.

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There is hope. And you are the one. You are Neo in The Matrix. Matrix is another word for womb, actually in Latin. Good point. That’s right. The womb is 10,000 watts itself, and you just want to own it and ground it. Tori, I really love you. You’re amazing. Before we say goodbye, for now, what are your three top tips for living a stellar life, and where can people find you?

I would say stay in the center of your head. Come up to where you’re neutral, and you can see, take a look, stay curious and amused, and be in that state of expectancy for the good. Always. Even the mantra, if something happens, just say that’s good because it opens you up to what’s good about that. No matter what happens, that’s good. It opens you up, your crown, and everything else that’s good. All right, you can find me on my website, which is just my name, toriquisling.com.  I have my fertility program there. I also do RTT for just all other issues and readings on the website and classes, teaching you how to be more clairvoyant.

Beautiful, Tori, thank you so, so much for helping so many people and for being a light in the world. And thank you, listeners. Remember to stay in the center of your head and even say the mantra that’s good. Because when you say it’s good, you create more good and have a stellar life. This is Orion till next time.

Your Checklist of Actions to Take

{✓}Visualize connecting with your spirit baby through a serene playground setting. This method helps you build a spiritual bond, allowing you to interact and communicate with your baby even before conception. 

{✓}Lower your stress levels through meditation, mindfulness, or even light exercise to create a more welcoming environment for your spirit baby. 

{✓}Break free from limiting beliefs ingrained in you by family dynamics or society. Personal growth flourishes when you step out of these comfort zones and embrace new, empowering beliefs about your capability to conceive and be a mother.

{✓}Find and immerse yourself in tribes that elevate and support you to sustain a positive mindset and offer the encouragement needed during your fertility journey.

{✓}Believe deeply in your path and practice hope and positivity even when faced with challenges. Every fertility journey is unique and should be embraced as such.

{✓}Trust in your intuition and cultivate your psychic abilities. As a natural medium, these skills can significantly enhance your connection with your spirit baby and provide valuable guidance throughout your journey to motherhood.

{✓}Incorporate holistic care practices such as acupuncture, balanced nutrition, and spiritual healing rituals to prepare your mind, body, and spirit for motherhood.

{✓}Focus on the spiritual and emotional connections with your partner. Tantric lovemaking emphasizes deep intimacy and energy flow, which can enhance fertility by aligning both partners’ energies and intentions.

{✓}Always maintain a state of expectancy for positive outcomes, helping you stay open to the possibilities of manifesting your dreams and connecting deeply with your spirit baby.

{✓}Visit Tori Quisling’s website if you want to explore more of her services, such as clairvoyant readings, fertility programs, and spiritual healing.

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Tori Quisling has been a recognized clairvoyant therapist and author for over 35 years and featured on the Today Show, CBS News and more. Tori is also certified by Marisa Peer in the Rapid Transformational Therapy Hypnotherapy method. Tori uses all her experience and skills to assist clients with Fertility, Anxiety, Life Purpose, Past Life Regression and more. Her readings and RTT sessions address and transform goals, purpose, relationships, health, past and future. She teaches intuitive and psychic development in private classes. She offers her services nationally and internationally on Zoom.

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